Who Am I? - Ben Dutka
Arnold thought itd be a good idea to formally introduce ourselves to our loyal readers. Its a darn good plan, too, especially considering the increased number of Comments we receive on a daily basis. So, who are the two main guys responsible for the content youve come to expect and hopefully appreciate? Well, hell handle his intro and its time for mine.
Some of you already know a little about me due to my interaction with a lot of readers over the past year or so, but heres more of my profile. First, the boring stuff- I graduated from the University of Connecticut in 2000 with a BA and my degree in Psychology. After trying standard office work for a few years, I realized I couldnt handle such work for the remainder of my days. of course, this realization came after I got laid off, but nevertheless. ;) Anyway, I decided I wanted to be a writer, which, at the time, was the equivalent of saying I wanted to be poor. As I didnt have a degree in Journalism and zero publishing credits to my name, I wasnt entirely sure how to begin, so I started submitting ideas and articles to several local newspapers. Thankfully, they thought I had some skill and hired me on as a freelance reporter, which really didnt keep me out of the poorhouse but still provided some excellent experience. In other words, my wallet didnt benefit, but my rsum did.
I started reporting on local news but eventually wound up producing front-page feature articles revolving around entertainment. In my time, I interviewed more than a few major music artists and comedians a few names include Kelly Clarkson, Jamey Jasta, Scott Ian, Coldplay, Celtic Woman, Carlos Mencia, Colin Mochrie, and Lewis Black and I got around a bit. But after yet another high-profile interview and feature piece for which I received the measly $50 a freelancer gets, and then finding out any number of magazines wouldve bought the same piece for $1500, I decided Id had enough. I started looking online and thanks to the 80+ published pieces I had, I got accepted to write for AskMen.com, where I handled more entertainment features. The name I wrote under will remain a mystery, because Im not about to take a thousand questions about whether or not Im that character in real life. Then, I stumbled on a part-time gig here at PSX Extreme, just before Aaron left for GameSpot. When he did, Val had liked what I produced in my few months and wanted to know if I would like a full-time spot.
Of course, I did, and here I am. Ive been Editor-in-Chief for over two years now, and Val and Arnold are absolutely awesome to work for/with. I plan on staying for as long as Im welcome, and thats all I need to say on that. As for my current life, I turned 30 last year and while a wee bit of depression accompanied that momentous event, I have to say Im relatively satisfied with where I am. I bought a 2007 Nissan 350Z back in March thanks to Arnolds recommendation; Im sure he will mention his car in his profile as wellwe mention em because we love our cars! Its a joy to drive, and mine is a slick silver with Burnt Orange and black interior while Arnolds is a lovely Daytona Blue. If any competing site would like to challenge our Zs to a battle, well be more than willing to smoke them off the road, as the only cars that wed really worry about are Porsches, Corvettes, M-series BMWs, that crazy 450HP new Mercedes, and maybe a Lancer Evolution. Arnold knows more about cars than I do, but my father has been a mechanic all his life, and between the two of them, I get all kinds of good tips. Heh.
Ive lifted weights for 6 years and I continue to do so three times per week. I also use my rowing machine three times per week to add the all-important cardio; its necessary because while I love tennis, you cant really play year-round in Connecticut. Im 63, about 225 lbs. and if youre not up to the road race, you can always challenge me to a simple arm-wrestling contest. Ive focused on my arms for so long that I havent lost in a while. ;) I rent a condo in a quiet location thats just a little too far away from everything, one of my lifelong goals is to read as many of the literary classics as I can get my hands on (currently reading a collection of Tennessee Williams plays), I enjoy sports and fine eating (not that I get the chance all the time), and Im currently single. My ex isnt worth mentioning, just because its not an interesting story...(LOL) For the time being, Im far too busy to even concern myself with women, although Arnold will tell you thats little more than a dodge. He may have a point, but Ive grown accustomed to being independent a long time ago, and many times, I take a great deal of solace and satisfaction in that independence. As far as Im concerned, women can wait.
Lastly, and perhaps most importantly for my audience, my gaming history and tastes- my first game was Pong on my fathers Atari 2600, which I played in 1982 when I was only 4 years old. Then I played the heck out of the family IBM/Tandy, where I spent almost all my time with Ms. Pac-Man (try that with a keyboard; I was a master!), Heros Quest, and Earl Weavers Baseball. Then I got the NES and a whole new world opened up. From then on, I was pretty well hooked. Ive never signed on for the whole brand loyalty or fanboy mess; I just always wanted to play the games I wanted to play. My favorite game of all time is Final Fantasy Tactics, followed closely by Super Mario Bros., Final Fantasy VII, Super Mario Kart, and Castlevania: Symphony of the Night. Obviously, you can guess that my two favorite systems (so far) are the SNES and PS1, although my personal gaming tastes have changed over the years. Back in college, I would only play RPGs. Ive played most of them on the PS1 and I still own about 30. But these days, Ill play anything thats great. A good story always gets me, as does finely honed action and of course, fun factor. Im a gamer for life, plain and simple.
For the most part, Im a laid back, not easily excitable individual that believes in ambition and motivation, a simple sense of civility and common sense, and an inherent drive to better oneself. Guess thats about it. Sohi. :)
1/18/2009 Ben Dutka
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AluShady
Sunday, January 18, 2009 @ 10:55:29 PM
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Also, interesting back story with the freelancing stuff. Think you'll ever really use that BA you got in Psych again?
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Sunday, January 18, 2009 @ 10:59:48 PM
King James
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 3:07:40 AM
King James
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 11:34:28 AM
King James
Tuesday, January 20, 2009 @ 12:35:08 AM
WorldEndsWithMe
Sunday, January 18, 2009 @ 11:23:40 PM
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Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Sunday, January 18, 2009 @ 11:49:52 PM
I just stuck around long enough and proved myself to be a capable journalist. So, they started moving me up until eventually, I was doing the big stuff.
Random_Steve
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 10:37:54 AM
shadowpal2
Sunday, January 18, 2009 @ 11:48:29 PM
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OU812
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 12:36:40 AM
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Although had to chill on that recently and gotten married and bought a civic si. I guess when you thrash too many bikes its time to stop and take a long break. I guess you can say gaming saved my ass as it was the only thing to calm me down; and my wife.
Pease \/
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 12:44:10 AM
eLLeJuss
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 1:05:37 AM
somethingrandom
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 12:45:33 AM
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ps92117
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 1:06:11 AM
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Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 1:19:11 AM
OU812
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 1:06:55 AM
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On a diferent note. I started on a pong ( late 70's i think) too but it wasnt on atari 2600. It was on a solo console to a tv. And from there I was hooked. My wish, when i go, bury me with all my consoles; God, I hate sharing.
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 10:29:14 AM
Aftab
Tuesday, January 20, 2009 @ 1:47:47 AM
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009 @ 6:59:19 PM
K ASH
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 2:09:15 AM
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Bought a lot of outdated VideoGame mags(stuff u did not buy was sent to us) one was
called PSXetreme I thought this was a online version of the mag and kept all my favourate games reviews,previews,posters in a scrap book.
My all time favourate game is The King of Fighters Series thats one game i can live on 4 life and the series is coming back in a big way.
KOF XII check out the vids in youtube and info at Cyberfanatix.
All other games are memorable but cant replay them.I need to play a JRPG that would turn my life upside down but im lazy but i will give it a shot.
King James
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 3:21:06 AM
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U sound like a older version of me. I swear I told this girl I'm currently dating something similar to that "I'm too busy for woman" line, yesterday. lol. I'm pretty laid back myself.
You and Arnold seem to have no respect for the Hondas and Mazdas. What's up with that? Eurocars aren't the only cars that can beat 350Z's. :O We race everything down here in Houston.
Anyways, thanks u Ben, Arnold, John (where's John bio anyway?), and everyone else at PSXE for keep me informed on my PS news. I appreciate what u folks are doing over there and I pray that it only gets better and better for y'all.
100.
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Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 10:22:24 AM
King James
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 11:36:39 AM
ArnoldK PSXE [Administrator]
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 12:55:15 PM
As far as Hondas, my friend has an S2000 - it's a nice car, but barren in amenities and doesn't feel nearly as powerful as my Z. I do love me an NSX, though.
Wage SLAVES
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 3:50:58 AM
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www
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 6:08:48 AM
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So i guess the 350Z is Arnold's avatar,all i long i was thinking the BMW 3z or something.
Yea it's cool to drive,i think games like GTA have enhanced my driving skills.
My fave games in no particular order would be
Streets of Rage 2
Golden Axe
Zelda Ocarina of time
Mario 64
Goldeneye
Donkey Kong 64
FFX
Vice city
San Andreas
IV
Def Jam FFNY
Fifa 09
NBA street homecourt
Tekken 5
Soul Calibur IV
Gears of War 2
OKAMI
Bully
Gran turismo 4
The Getaway
MGS 3
MGS 4
Neva had psone,i had N64 and defended it always,i hated the psone at first but N64 lost the battle anyway,then i got the ps2 and learnt to love playstation.Thus,if MS is getting in,i see no reason why i should hate,i might start loving them for all u know.
One more thing,Ben i already know ur ass,have been on this site from like the middle of last year,that's enough time to get to know you. I know you luv Bioshock a lot!
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GoldenShadow
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 8:33:27 AM
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Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 10:23:26 AM
dveisalive
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 8:52:11 AM
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Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 10:24:05 AM
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Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 10:21:02 AM
Millman
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 9:54:13 AM
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Edit: Fixed spelling. Commenting quickly from work. It happens. :-)
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Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 10:27:44 AM
If you want to have the muscular structure but still be able to fit into size 34 or 36 pants, you need to keep both routines going all week.
Millman
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 12:18:43 PM
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Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 12:29:01 PM
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Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 11:16:45 AM
Dingodial
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 11:52:27 AM
snglbck26
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 11:27:24 AM
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I really enjoy your articles(Arnold and John's too) and your site is the first place I go for info. Keep up the great work.
WorldEndsWithMe
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 12:34:55 PM
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ArnoldK PSXE [Administrator]
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Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 2:05:59 PM
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Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 2:44:14 PM
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MetalHead09
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 4:22:53 PM
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tlpn99
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 7:53:59 PM
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Haha only kidding guys :)
Seriously we can't say it enough great site etc etc. Well I feel we can't anyway.
I don't think I go to any other sites now beside this one, maybe Metacritic to get an overall feel of something other than games ie books or music or something. Now if you could fit that in Ben or Arnold maybe even John (is it) Jess I dunno I forget the other guys name....haha only kidding John lol :)keep it real guys :)
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 8:37:05 PM
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spiderboi
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 9:04:37 PM
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Nice to see some background on you guys. Kudos to all the work you put into this site.
I may be a new member here, but I've been visiting your site since PS1 days (when the URL had some letter in CAPS -- PSXExtreme.com). Most reliable site i ever came across, and i visit here almost every day. It just cracks me up when some fanboys drop some stupid comment with no solid basis. Funny harhar. Anyways. you guys keep it up :)
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 11:17:34 PM
eLLeJuss
Tuesday, January 20, 2009 @ 4:53:52 PM
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009 @ 6:10:21 PM
Jackyl
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 10:37:09 PM
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The one other reviews I tend to check out are the video reviews called Zero Punctuation by Ben Crowshaw. He tends to hate every good game but the reviews are hilarious.
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 11:18:11 PM
Daedusian
Monday, January 19, 2009 @ 11:44:21 PM
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Alright.. Ben.. you lucky, lucky b@stard! You're telling me that you met THE coolest person on earth!?? Mr. Black. You have got to give me his number.. that guy is freaking hilarious. Everytime he mumbles (when he's pissed - which is pretty much 24/7) I crack up for like 20 minutes. Everything about that guy is perfect for comedy/standup..
Now I'm not the most knowledgeable person when it comes to vehicles, but you think one of you guys might get the new 370Z?, because I think that one could top your current 350 lolz.. In fact, I'll go buy one, then race you guys.. yah, I wish haha. Well you can take on my beasty '05 Civic for the time being. ;)
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Tuesday, January 20, 2009 @ 10:30:20 AM
As for Black, he IS funny (even though he's far too left-wing for me), and the interview went well, if I remember correctly. He wasn't quite as big then as he was now, like a lot of people I interviewed, so it made it easier.
Daedusian
Tuesday, January 20, 2009 @ 11:26:40 AM
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Thursday, January 22, 2009 @ 12:42:22 PM
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P.S. I think m lexus SC400 may give you guys a run for your money lol
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Thursday, January 22, 2009 @ 8:57:43 PM
BikerSaint
Saturday, January 24, 2009 @ 2:47:56 AM
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As I just posted to Arnold, don't know why but thought you 2 were in mid/high 30 age range.
Ahhhh crap, now you guys got me feeling old at 56, Just a damned good thing my brain is in a stationary "juvenile delinquent" frame of mind, LOL.
Now where the hell did I just leave my walker?

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GoldenShadow
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Sunday, January 18, 2009 @ 10:52:36 PM
On a side note, I envy you for being able to interview Colin Mochrie.
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