Editorial: It Was A Bad Day For Stereotypes!
As most of our loyal readers know, I've often spoken about stereotypes within the industry and how they've changed over the years. Recently, I've taken more of a negative view by saying that while the gaming populace has made great strides, there's still a deeply entrenched sense of inferiority in regards to the mainstream public. Even if gamers aren't "nerds," video games still aren't a legitimate entertainment industry, and nobody will ever take it as seriously as movies, music, books, etc.
Now, I still stand by that as today is merely one day and in the larger scheme of things, it's not indicative of the entire picture. However, in my modest travels on a Friday afternoon and into the evening (nothing too spectacular, mind you), I saw multiple examples of how some of the more commonly accepted gamer stereotypes have disappeared in the recent past. First, I went to the mall - oh yes, we're having wild times now - and hemmed and hawed over a Resident Evil 5 purchase. But after reading Arnold's review and remembering my time with the demo, I decided to wait. I wouldn't have if I didn't have Star Ocean: The Last Hope sitting at home, but with an RPG there...well, I've got enough to play. And there's this little thing called "work," too, even though I know some of you still think that it's more like playing. ;)
Anywho, there's a man and woman in there, and while I don't make it a habit of eavesdropping, they were pretty loud so it was difficult to ignore. It only took seconds to realize they were married, and the instant I heard the raised voices, my pre-programmed brain settled on the obvious conclusion: the dude wanted to buy a game but she didn't want him to, for whatever reason. But I forgot what year it was! They weren't arguing over whether or not to buy a game; they were arguing over which game to buy, in exactly the same fashion a couple might argue over a DVD or CD. The guy wanted RE5 and the girl wanted Star Ocean. It wasn't even a prototypical Wii game, or something! I couldn't help but grin in their direction; the girl noticed and quickly said, "he always gets to pick." Oh, and if any of you were wondering, no, these two in no way held any of the other common stereotypical gamer traits.
Then, I was in Best Buy and I overheard two people arguing over Killzone 2 and Halo 3; I heard before I saw them, but as it turned out, they were two guys in suits who had to be 40+ years of age. They almost sounded as if they knew what they were talking about, too... Finally, I turned the corner, and you know how they have the demonstration systems set up at the end of the aisles? I just started fiddling around with the PS3, sifting around to see if they had any cool videos or demos on there. I was about ready to put the controller down when a voice near my shoulder said, "hey, let's play." It wasn't a kid and it wasn't a teenage boy. It wasn't even male. It was a girl, probably in her mid-20s, who - if I liked the bleached blonde cheerleader look - would be extraordinarily cute. I said I had no idea what they had in there (or if they had anything at all) and she said, "oh, I don't care. I just want to play something...I'm bored."
There was a MotorStorm: Pacific Rift demo in there, so we played a few races of that. She didn't win, but she wasn't terrible, and she certainly enjoyed herself. She even chattered on about some of the games she had played recently and while none of them could be considered "hardcore" titles, the mere fact that she was standing there was enough to dispel a few major stereotypes. This all happened within the span of a few hours, mind you, and upon leaving Best Buy, I found myself thinking: "well, that was an encouraging little excursion." Some days, I don't even want to look at another human, but others...they can surprise me. Today was such a day. And bear in mind that I'm 30 years old now and my mind is still set in the '80s in some ways, so while you 20-year-olds might not find any of this surprising, you didn't grow up in a very different time. Consider that before saying something like "well, duh" in response. ;)
3/13/2009 Ben Dutka
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TheUglyBassist
Friday, March 13, 2009 @ 11:18:17 PM
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Scarecrow
Friday, March 13, 2009 @ 11:41:14 PM
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I think in general v-games are a big part of society now, just like movies.
I also have to add that it's good to see babes getting into anime. Anime and games really do help each other out a lot too.
I specially like the part 'bout the blonde babe, hot!
This is one of the reasons though why I think Japan is the best country as far as in being a gamer. Society there doesn't aggressively look down on gamers, or blame games for anything and everything. But yes good to see parts of the US accepting games more.
LimitedVertigo
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 5:15:59 AM
Neurotoxiny
Friday, March 13, 2009 @ 11:43:42 PM
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ImTheMan
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 3:29:53 AM
Fatcat3788
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 2:11:36 AM
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Neurotoxiny
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 2:41:21 AM
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LimitedVertigo
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 5:16:23 AM
Totalz
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 2:56:43 AM
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Gaming and gamers take another hit then, apparently we're all manic depressive psyco-maniacs who like to march into our old schools and open fire on the teachers and students. It couldn't have been the fact that this poor child had most likely been abused and neglected and bullied at this place...no, of course not.
Qubex
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 6:33:25 AM
Issue is, what was the psychological trigger that pushed the boy to behave in such extremes... massive depression, coupled with an unstable environment... criticisms, teasing... being ignores, abused... you name it... it all adds up... and then the snap!!!
Q!
"i am home"
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Totalz
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 1:11:18 PM
artson1966
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 6:55:17 AM
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caliblue15
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 9:11:55 AM
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Qubex
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 9:33:58 AM
Q!
"i am home"
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Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 10:28:50 AM
Scarecrow
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 2:18:01 PM
WorldEndsWithMe
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 4:05:43 PM
Qubex
Sunday, March 15, 2009 @ 4:50:41 AM
jaybiv
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 12:41:22 PM
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I like reading your commentaries, but next time do us a favor and not include missed opportunities like that. Keep up the good work nonetheless.
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 12:55:16 PM
I would find it weird to "step" to anyone in freakin' Best Buy, though. I'm perfectly comfortable in clubs and bars, but that's only because women EXPECT to be approached in that fashion in those places.
And I'll be perfectly honest: the thought didn't cross my mind until afterwards. I was just surprised she was even standing there; the idea for this article hit my brain and I didn't think about anything else. :)
WorldEndsWithMe
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 4:07:11 PM
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 4:28:34 PM
WorldEndsWithMe
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 4:08:20 PM
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Qubex
Sunday, March 15, 2009 @ 4:52:41 AM
CH1N00K
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 4:58:28 PM
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It shouldn't come as a suprise really though, with the amount of consoles that have been sold to people over the last few decades, they couldn't all have been the stereotypical "gamer" there had to have been at least 1 hot girl in there some where..lol.
Take you, Ben, for example, a 30-ish gamer? Stereotypically, you should be living in your mom's basement, driving a moped and working an I.T. job. Instead you drive a 350Z, date hot women and are physically capable of tossing a grown man into a tree...A few years ago, we called people like you "Jocks"
Funny how things change....
As for your cheerleader problem, well you can think about it this way...Chances are she wasn't a natural blonde. I was reading somewhere that blondes are becoming extinct. A study over the last few decades has shown that their numbers are dropping pretty rapidly.
Of course the same study also noticed that there are less and less Male babies being born every generation too, and we could be a dying "breed" along with the Natural blonde....just something to think about.
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WorldEndsWithMe
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 5:41:40 PM
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 6:21:02 PM
As for the rest...yeah, it's mostly accurate. But I'm staying home tonight to finish Killzone 2. Still a gamer! Heh.
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Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Saturday, March 14, 2009 @ 6:22:32 PM
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WorldEndsWithMe
Sunday, March 15, 2009 @ 6:44:21 PM
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OriginalSin
Monday, March 16, 2009 @ 9:10:10 AM
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Anyway long story short since that day I no longer believed in Stereotypes. Since then I met '' geeks'' that never played Diablo, Final Fantasy or any other game for that matter, I met a ''Jock'' that couldn't get a girl to save his life.I even met chick that knew everything about muscle cars there is to know. The list goes on and on.
Great article Ben, but all I can say is that stereotypes have been changing for a long time now, I just think it will become more obvious as days go by, seeing more and more people grow up with the modern technology.
And honestly gaming is becoming the main form of entertainment all over the world. People are really starting to loose interest in the movie scene so to speak...
But I would find it interesting to see more stereotype's being ''Busted'' so if anyone comes across some more it will be good to know about...
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Monday, March 16, 2009 @ 10:21:34 AM
And yeah, she does sound like my type...but TOO small and petite scares me a little. I'm always afraid I'm going to hurt girls that small (and yet, overweight chicks are my biggest turn-off LOL).
OriginalSin
Tuesday, March 17, 2009 @ 3:06:52 AM
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As for overweight chicks I'm with you on that one only thing that scares me off quicker are those monster bodybuilder chicks that looks like they snap you in two.... that's just not right. Guess some people will call us vain for saying that about overweight people, I just say it's our taste and we're allowed to. If the don't like it they can go have a biscuit LOL.
And yeah you are right seeing stereotypes fade right in front of your very eyes is quite a thing. But when it does happen in front of you it is quite satisfying as well. It makes me feel good to know the world is becoming less and less ''scripted'' if I can put it like that.
Anyway thanx again for the cool article.

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ImTheMan
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Friday, March 13, 2009 @ 11:06:28 PM