Girl Gamers Suffering From Gender Stereotype?
So this girl gamer goes on NPR and demands respect. Well, she's entitled, I suppose. If there's any group that can understand being stereotyped, it's the gamers, especially those who grew up during the dawn of the industry.
But has anyone considered the possibility that while male gamers back in the day (when 99% of all gamers on earth were male) were automatically labeled in a certain way, girl gamers today face a new issue...? Well, it begins with the fact that this industry has its roots in male entertainment, and that anything to do with violence or sports is restricted to the male realm. For the guys, it was more of a social issue; i.e., the belief that we only stayed home and played video games because we weren't invited to the latest party, we didn't have a lot of friends, and girls really weren't in the picture.
But for the ladies, it appears to be a very different hurdle, and it goes well beyond a lack of respect when playing online. No, this might be a gender-bending issue of some sort, in that girls who enjoy games must be too...well, tomboy-ish. These days, it's like the chick who was heavy into sports and played basketball with the boys at recess. Most of those over the age of 40 who are entirely clueless about this industry will see a screen, see a gun, automatically assume the entire purpose of the game is to kill people (even if they saw the handgun in Heavy Rain). And if they see a girl playing it, well, there has to be something wrong, right?
It just isn't lady-like. "She won't meet any nice boys that way," said grandma. And what if all this talk about games making people more violent really kicks in? Yep, the normal girl is changed into an aggressive, creepy girl. I don't know any girls who play games but if I did, I'm willing to bet they've encountered plenty of people who, upon learning they play, immediately assume they're lacking in estrogen. And worse, that they might have an over-abundance of testosterone. As gaming continues to hit a wider demographic with every passing year, I'm afraid that one set of stereotypes (all games are for boys, all games are violent, etc.), will generate another stereotype that specifically offends females.
It's bad enough that girls have to remain silent while playing online; it's even worse when they become pigeon-holed...into a pigeon-hole.
1/28/2011 Ben Dutka
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Comments (71 posts)
Bonampak
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 11:18:03 PM
Historically, the industry has catered to male gamers. And only relatively recently, has it started to branch out. This as a direct result of women becoming 39% of the gaming population.
That same 39% are the ones that have helped FarmVille, Animal Crossing, Little Big Planet, The Sims, Final Fantasy (plus lots of JRPG's), Point and Click Adventure games, dance & fitness simulators, etc. become such huge hits.
They're an important demographic. And game makers have already started years ago to target them more and more.
Obviously those games don't usually include the sort of stuff that makes every man grin with glee (sex, violence and mindless action).
And so far, only very few women complain about it. So it's hardly something to even worry about, really.
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 11:26:42 PM
Bonampak
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 11:51:03 PM
I clicked the highlighted text and went to the other news article and then went to Kotaku and reacted to what I had read there.
Anyway... are gals being stereotyped? Sure.
But get this. They're being stereotyped by the same people that stereotype ANYONE that plays games. The ones that think videogames turn people into killers or are a waste of time.
So why bother?
frostface
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 10:07:10 PM
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Jo is more a reviewer of games, while Pink posts up her gaming online with some commentaries. I'll have to root out one of Pinks videos. She's playing CoD:BO and talking about what she feels as a girl gamer the industry represents. I enjoy both girls videos and a few others I watch. They're just about having fun with their games and isn't that what it's all about. They're not much different then the guys but in no way does it even feel like they're 'Tomboys' imo.
Here's one of Pinks videos were she talks a little about how she finds gaming as a girl. I personally don't see why gender should influence how a person is perceived in gaming. Isn't having fun universal?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mkkUThQZshk
BikerSaint
Wednesday, February 02, 2011 @ 11:11:09 AM
Monsterchef
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 10:11:29 PM
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WorldEndsWithMe
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 10:12:50 PM
Lawless SXE
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 10:31:49 PM
Monsterchef
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 10:38:19 PM
Lawless SXE
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 11:20:40 PM
WorldEndsWithMe
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 10:11:55 PM
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That doesn't make it universal, but that's what I see. Of course, this all depends largely on your concept of "gamer". Girls playing dance games probably won't suffer the same stigma as a girl playing COD.
Scarecrow
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 10:58:39 PM
But that's not a bad, just like it's not a bad thing for us guys to have more female friends than guy friends...
Other than that the ones I know (some through PSN/ some in real life) are actually really nice not gross or like those body building/beer drinking females. They're actually just really nice.
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crunchy_nut_kid
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 8:51:25 AM
WorldEndsWithMe
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 10:55:42 AM
Lawless SXE
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 10:22:34 PM
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I know few 'girl gamers', but most of them are really no different from any other girls that I know. As a matter of fact, they're generally far more approachable. Hmm... Perhaps we are heading into a world where gaming will be 'the great equaliser'. If this is so, then we are still a ways off, but it could happen.
Peace.
WorldEndsWithMe
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 10:49:15 PM
Lawless SXE
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 11:18:17 PM
WorldEndsWithMe
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 10:57:05 AM
Lawless SXE
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 4:38:18 PM
Eld
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 10:22:46 PM
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Now online shooters... might be a different situation. I wouldn't know. I don't play them.
Lawless SXE
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 10:35:55 PM
Scarecrow
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 11:04:27 PM
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Even in shooters like Uncharted3, it's not uncommon to party up with some female gamers. The guys just talk to them normally for the most part. But like always there will be jerks eventually. Other than that it's actually not so bad from what I've seen on PSN.
As far as the "tomboy-ish" stereotype. I'll be honest... I kinda like tomboy-ish girls a lot lol. But they still gotta have a cute side, not into the ones with bald heads and those extremes lol. Bah what am I saying lol...
Anyway, from what I have seen and experienced with female gamers on PSN it's not so bad. I have a feeling that a lot of the problem is coming from the 350 side of things.
johnld
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 11:33:53 PM
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LittleBigMidget
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 11:40:36 PM
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sonic1899
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 10:15:28 AM
Fane1024
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 3:38:22 PM
Of course, part of that is the fact that no one uses a mic on PSN.
p.s. I quit that game ASAP.
Last edited by Fane1024 on 1/29/2011 3:39:15 PM
Clamedeus
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 7:21:41 PM
But i probably only heard 1 or 3 racial slurs but that never detracted me from playing online nothing will if i want to play a game i would rather play than let some moron ruin my party. The mute button is the best invention who ever invented it is a genius.
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Alienange
Friday, January 28, 2011 @ 11:47:14 PM
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Scarecrow
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 12:00:02 AM
What does one's avatar have to do with anything? Am I to assume that you have that Bleach guy avatar because you're trying to imitate someone more manly than yourself?
See how ridiculous it is?
One's avatar can stand as a joke (look at 0_o's car avatar), to a favorite character in a game/movie, to something ironic, etc. Everyone has a different statement to make.
You've been schooled, no need to pay me.
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 12:08:58 AM
Alienange
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 4:56:40 PM
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 7:58:48 PM
Smoothhands
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 12:06:36 AM
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Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 12:10:07 AM
WorldEndsWithMe
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 10:59:51 AM
BikerSaint
Wednesday, February 02, 2011 @ 11:23:10 AM
Smoothhands
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 12:16:44 AM
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Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 12:58:42 AM
Smoothhands
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 1:31:08 AM
Shams
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 1:36:19 AM
Having said that, girl gamers getting the respect they deserve from the gaming community at large is the day everyone of them grows up, or mass censorship is enforced. Since neither of them are likely to take place, girl gamers should do what every other self-respecting person should do: stick to playing games with your friends and people who you know.
Smoothhands
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 1:43:28 AM
Shams
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 1:55:18 AM
Smoothhands
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 2:12:26 AM
Shams
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 12:47:57 PM
But I repeat, not everybody has to know who you are, what you are, where you live, etc...Morever, you kinda have to go out of your way to reveal that.
BikerSaint
Wednesday, February 02, 2011 @ 11:27:17 AM
Kiwi of DOOM
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 12:36:49 AM
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"Yes, I play games, I also enjoy watching movies, drawing, and drinking coffee." There, no big deal. Just a statement of fact. I'm a firm believer in the idea that attitudes are contagious, and if gamer girls would stop getting so worked up over the fact that our 'image' is taking a few hits, things would simmer down. Yes, I've had to turn my mic off many a time to avoid unwanted irritation, but I've never thrown a fit, and I've met quite a few guys who are quite cool about the whole thing.
Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, you won't find me hiding my controller or waiving a picket sign anytime soon. ^_^
Last edited by Kiwi of DOOM on 1/29/2011 12:41:32 AM
Kiwi of DOOM
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 12:48:37 AM
Smoothhands
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 1:34:44 AM
ABUrabad
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 3:39:58 AM
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for what I read at the article above , to find a girl playing any any any video game would be so outrageous in their opinions
but at this point I can see that girls are looking for any game that is not a Gender Stereotype , for example my sister is still looking for playing Crash Bandicoot three again on the PS3 and she liked playing little big planet , but in general girls over my country still feel awkward when in it comes to any video game.
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Kevin555
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 5:37:40 AM
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Gamers.
People really should get with the times & wise up, sure the hobby is still tilted towards more of a male dominant one but regardless of this there is absolutely no need to split genders because of it. For example; a girl gamer, we don't call ourselves guy gamers do we? We're just gamers in general, so why can't everyone who partakes in this form of entertainment all fall under the one label of just being gamers other than [insert gender here]:gamer?
A gamer is a gamer, end of story.
I also suggest muting your headset to avoid mic wearing, hardened online heroes that spurt hollow threats & try and act like "they're the man" in CoD.
Robochic
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 8:26:39 AM
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Men will never quite me and I say to all female games don't let the Males or kidlits make you feel like you can't play online show them what you got.
Ben great article once again.
Oh and to all the PSX thanks guys for making me feel like one of the guys :)
TheAgingHipster
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 9:29:35 AM
BikerSaint
Wednesday, February 02, 2011 @ 11:36:10 AM
crunchy_nut_kid
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 9:01:56 AM
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Clamedeus
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 11:22:26 AM
Clamedeus
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 1:33:59 PM
And i mean stereotyping in general not just gaming.
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Clamedeus
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 9:31:06 PM
TheAgingHipster
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 9:12:46 AM
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Second, my wife is a gamer with an affinity for platformers with shooter elements (e.g., Ratchet & Clank). But she is also the very definition of a girlie girl, sort of like Katherine Heigl's characters in all her movies but more athletic. She never catches any flack for being a gamer and regularly whips up on her brother and cousin at numerous games.
Now, I'm not intending to brag, but my point is that I don't see the gender pigeonholing that so many articles claim occurs. I can see how it COULD happen, but I haven't experienced it. It makes me wonder just how big a problem this really is, and how many girls actually deal with it.
Last edited by TheAgingHipster on 1/29/2011 9:15:01 AM
Ben Dutka PSXE [Administrator]
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 9:50:50 AM
You've been around video games all your life, and you've been around people with similar experiences. None of them are going to look at a girl as more of a boy because she plays. The mainstream populace who knows nothing about games, on the other hand...
For instance, take those mothers you see in the Dead Space 2 ad. Ask THEM. Know what I mean? We often forget about that other naysaying group...primarily because we don't WANT to remember them. ;)
Last edited by Ben Dutka PSXE on 1/29/2011 9:51:07 AM
TheAgingHipster
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 11:38:00 AM
The flip side, then, is that perhaps gaming in general is becoming more acceptable. Using my aunts as the example again, they are leaders in their communities and churches, and when people hear they are playing games like Ratchet and Clank, or any of the plethora of AppStore games, they are not shunned or judged, but rather their associates begin to play those games too. They view it as a social activity rather than as a stigma, and they've brought new gamers into the fold by being open about their hobby.
I don't know if this is the exception rather than the rule, but I do think it says something about circumstances surrounding gamers. Perhaps public view of certain gamers is a product of other behaviors unassociated with gaming, e.g., asociality or awkwardness?
bigrailer19
Saturday, January 29, 2011 @ 12:06:27 PM
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So why should anyone outaide the industry be stereotyping? We know gamers are not really criticizing in this case. So if a girl leads a normal life abd plays games on the side, I don't know what the issue would be for anybody.
SplendidBlended
Sunday, January 30, 2011 @ 4:18:53 PM
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It's a label that seems to get placed on any girl who games. You're a girl? You play games? Well, you're either fat and ugly or a tomboy. Those are your options.
I have a lot of female gaming friends. Almost all of them are fairly attractive, and almost all of them enjoy the kind of things that other, non-gaming girls enjoy, too. We aren't just male gamers with boobs.
There is still so much disrespect for girls who play video games. It's sad. There has hardly been a single time where I haven't been called something sexist or disgusting while I've been on my headset. That hasn't stopped me, though.
SplendidBlended
Sunday, January 30, 2011 @ 4:22:41 PM
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